Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

Following up

I was never good at following through my own promises. I begin with energy, with brilliance even, striking out with the promise of something well-founded. But somewhere along the line, the effort dissipates.

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

Counselling and Technology

So, I find myself asking: why does this space lag behind? Where are the experts who are meant to examine these innovations critically, to expand the research and build a body of knowledge that straddles both counselling and tech?

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

On the plane from Sydney

There’s something there—a richness in the process of self-reflection—that could deepen our understanding of how counsellors can better integrate technology into their practice. I’ll need to work through the theoretical underpinnings carefully, but I feel a sense of momentum here.

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

Reading the Discourse

How does it feel to watch one's self-esteem erode slowly, I thought. Especially for those who had previously navigated life with unwavering certainty and success?

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

Outside, Looking in

It’s a strange feeling, but it happens often. I would end up typing a few words, perhaps a thought, or a memory, some form of input, or maybe even a compliment - a few words in but then suddenly I’m left feeling scared, wondering about how they might respond, querstioning the legitimacy of my own inputs, and thinking about how this adds value to the conversation.

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

California, here we come

Here I was, reminiscing a show about adolescent dread and finding a second family, and finding myself transported into the complex world of cryptocurrency, and the narratives of economic fluctuation. A pair of contrasts that had nothing to do with each other, not a similarity in sight or etched in between, a monochromatic but definitive black and white shade that never wanted to mix. I guess you never know where you'll end up.

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

Exploring Masculinity in Parenthood

Reimagining masculinity in new parenthood isn't just a cultural debate; it's a pivotal aspect of modern parenting and mental health. As we navigate life's milestones, why aren't we examining how we perceive and enact our roles as parents? Why aren't we reviewing how it influences our families, our self-image, and our emotional wellness?

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Pigar Mahdar Pigar Mahdar

The Worries of New Parenting

Conversations about becoming a parent are often awash with positive sentiments - the joy of nurturing a new life, the excitement of embarking on this unique journey, the anticipation of the moments of laughter and love that lie ahead. However, beneath this sunny façade, the storm of anxiety and worry that brews for many new parents is often left unspoken.

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